Why to save sex for marriage
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We have learned many ways to have healthy friendships and dating relationships through out our time reading Unmasking Sexual Con Games and Relating. We have learned about groomers and their ways of harming others. We have also learned why it is wise to wait until marriage to have sex. If you chose to have sex before marriage it can harm u physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually.
We have learned that in a healthy relationship neither one of the people involved is categorized as a "groomer." An emotional groomer is someone who manipulates another's emotions to skillfully gain control of that person (Buddenberg pg. 1). There are nine grooming tactics that they will usually use. These tactics are jealousy and possessiveness, insecurity, intimidation, anger, accusations, flattery, status, bribery, and control. With jealousy the groomer won't want anyone else "messing" with his/her "territory" (Buddenberg pg...