second chance
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Whenever I hear the word "cheater", many other words come to my mind. Betrayer is one; liar is another. Moreover, being a person that has never been in a relationship, I am sure this happens because of my pre conceived notion of love and relationships, which is pretty idealistic. Nevertheless, since I am all my friends' crying shoulder (a common characteristic of lonely people), I know the way relationships are. Therefore, I can fully sympathize with another individual that has gone through an infidelity issue because I think that knowing me as good as I do, I would know exactly how I would behave in a situation as intense and as common as cheating. Even if it causes all the hate of my girlfriends, family and coworkers, I think I would forgive my dumb old boyfriend. Now, please do not get me wrong, my forgiveness would come with several restrictions and exceptions.
First of all, I am of the firm belief that two individuals should not be together if both are not one hundred percent sure that they want to be in a formal, romantic relationship with each other. Why? Well, it is because doubts in a relationship give way for one or both or the members to always be sub-consciously looking for someone else, this lead to potential if not sure cheating...